Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Tonight while we sleep...

(let's be honest...I don't think we will sleep too much) someone from our agency will represent us in the adoption court in Ethiopia. So many thoughts are running through my head today. Will the birth mother be able to be there? Is all of our paperwork in just the right place? Did MOWA get their letter of recommendation written? Is it God's will for our case to pass the first time in the court system? Rather than focusing on my concerns, I am going to lay them at God's feet and trust in my heavenly Father. Will you join our family in prayer?

We are going to spend our evening praying. If you feel led, these are the things we are praying for.

Praying for the birth mom.
  • For her to be able to make it to court.
  • For her to have the proper ID with her.
  • For peace in her decision in her adoption plan for the boys.
  • For blessings and protection for her.

For the court system.

  • For the Ministry Of Women's Affair to have their letter of recommendation done and in place.
  • For our POA from our agency - for her protection and mercy.
  • For our judge to have a heart for adoption and blessing on our family.
  • For all of our paperwork to be available and just right.

For our boys.

  • For their hearts to be prepared for our family.
  • For them to attach and bond with us.
  • For their complete healing of their body, mind, heart.
  • For a good transition into our family.
  • For a good connection with our girls.
  • For them to come to know Christ as their personal savior.
  • For better health than we anticipate.
  • For their protection and safety.
  • That God will raise them to be godly men and be used in positive and powerful ways.

For our girls.

  • For our time apart while we are in Africa.
  • For a smooth transition to being big sisters.
  • To understand why our family dynamics will be different and strange for awhile.
  • To be able to demonstrate the love of Christ to the boys.
  • To be OK with less of Mom's time.
  • To have a good attitude about all the sacrifices they will have to be part of.
  • To be able to process their feelings well.

For Chuck and Cris.

  • For us to attach and connect well with the boys.
  • For our health and safety when we travel.
  • For God's continued provision as we pay for the travel funds.
  • For Cris' time to be multiplied to care for all the needs of 4 kids.
  • For our adjustment back into having a baby/toddler and a preschooler.
  • For us to continue to focus on the positive things as we encounter difficult stages.
  • To be able to demonstrate God's love and kindness to our new kids.
  • For our adjustment all together with our new kids.
  • To remember all the training and education we have learned.
  • For wisdom to parent our boys in a way that will only benefit them.

For our family.

  • To be a positive example of adoption and be advocates for other orphaned children.
  • For protection from the evil one and his workers.
  • For the grandparents to be able to focus on what is best for our new boys.
  • That our extended family can be a positive example of accepting adopted children the same as birth children.
  • For wisdom to handle racial difficulties and protection from those situations.
  • To be a positive example of racially diverse family. Showing that God sees His whole family in a variety of shades.
  • To demonstrate God's heart for adoption.


Just wanted to pass on a few blogs from today that really touched my heart. Andrea (HERE) has such beautiful words from God's Word today. And HERE is a letter from a mom who is in the process of adoption who is struggling with her family and the lack of support and encouragement.


Dear Sweet Peas,

We are hopeful that tonight our adoption case will pass court in Ethiopia. We are preparing our home for your arrival. And praying that God prepares you both for us.

We love you, Love, Mom

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

God is not surprised - He is in control

God is not surprised by how quickly this adoption and referral has come together. Though we thought it would take 6 months or so to get to this stage. God knew it would take only a few weeks. I am leaning on the truths of God's Word as we face the mountain that needs to be moved.

Since we are adopting siblings, the costs are obviously more than for one child. It is less than if you did 2 adoptions at 2 different times. But the truth is, it is expensive.

Chuck is working hard at getting our cars sold so we can get some cash in hand. Plus...we don't have room in our car for 2 extra sweet kiddos. So mini van...here we come.

Our prayer is that God provides $10,000 in 10 days. That is when we need it by to send in our acceptance of the referral.

We have already been blessed by support from our friends and family. We are humbled and blessed beyond our expectation. Thank you for the love and support. And we are so grateful for your prayers.

At the bank this morning, I was able to share with the workers there our pictures and provide a testimony of God and His plan for our family. I can't wait to share how God works out all the details.

I want to share a prayer that we read today in our Advent devotion time with the kids.

O, Lord, help me to see your future possibilities in spite of the limitations of the present moment. Amen.



Sweet Peas,

We lift you up in prayer all day long. We are thankful that you have a bed to sleep in tonight at the orphanage. We are thankful that you have food to eat and special mothers to take care of you until we can come and take you home.

We love you !!!

Love, Mom

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Praying for others

I have been praying for other families that are either traveling to Ethiopia this week, or going to court or getting ready to travel or go to court. Praying for families on the waiting list, or trying to get their funds together to press on. Praying for a family dealing with an adoption disruption and all the pain that is involved. Praying for families adjusting to bringing children home. Praying for families that have had their hearts broken with failed adoptions. I have been burdened for these families (most of whom are virtual strangers). Burdened to bring their needs before God and seek His will for their situations. Praying for peace and comfort. Praying for provision and grace.

Someone once told me that once you enter the adoption world, other adoptive families will share a deep connection with you. Almost like family. Possibly because they have been through similar situations. Possibly because God allows that strong connection. What ever it is, I believe it is true.

I am thankful that God has called our family to adoption. I believe it is He who lays it on hearts. I call it a privilege to pray for these others families and the stages that they are in. I am thankful that they too will pray for us as we journey along.

Sweet Pea,

I am excited as more families are moving through HH - it just means we are closer to you than we were before. God's plan and timing is perfect and I can't wait to meet you.

Love, Mom